Gun Stores and FFL's Retailers: Please Be Truthful and Be Cautious What You Say
Gun Store Etiquette: Things Not to Say and or Choose Your Words Wisely…Let’s Take a LOOK

Gun Store Etiquette: Things Not to Say and or Choose Your Words Wisely…Let’s Take a LOOK
Says Gregg Kielma,FFL, Gunsmith, Firearms and First Aid Fundamentals Instructor, please understand this is something I'm very careful who purchases a firearm from me. If your saying things that would lead a reasonable person to understand you unstable, you will never purchase a firearm from me, ever.
Have a firearm transferred to me? and I believe you're not stable and you pass the background check; the ATF will be visiting you. I promise I'll make the phone call to the ATF and alert them of my "gut" feeling. Please understand that I will never release a firearm to anyone that I believe has ill intentions and like I said the ATF will be paying you a visit.
Let's Take a LOOK:
Stepping into a gun store for the first time can be intimidating, especially if you’re not sure what to say or do. Whether you’re a seasoned gun owner or a newbie, there are certain things you should avoid saying to ensure your visit is smooth, respectful, and, above all, legal.
Here are 20 things you should never say in a gun store.
1. Making Politically Charged Statements
A gun store is not the place for heated political debates or rants. Whether passionate about your views or just looking to stir the pot, save it for a more appropriate venue. Dropping political bombs can make employees and fellow customers uncomfortable and distract from the focus of the store, which is safety, respect, and firearms.
2. Comparing Firearm Terms to Video Game
Relating real firearms to those in video games might come off as not taking the responsibilities of handling a firearm seriously. Real guns come with critical safety and ethical considerations that should be respected, showing the staff, you understand the gravity of owning and using firearms.
3. Asking to Disassemble Firearms
Resist the urge to disassemble a gun unless you’ve got permission from the staff. Doing so without permission can make you seem suspicious or disrespectful of the store’s property. If further clarification regarding a firearm is required, please seek guidance from a qualified individual.
4. Making Threats or Jokes About Using Weapons
Any talk of using weapons on people or property, even in jest, is a serious no-go. Such comments aren’t just in poor taste; they could land you in legal trouble. Gun stores promote safety and responsible ownership, so keep conversations respectful and focused on legal use.
5. Questioning the Legality of Store Practices
Implying that the store’s illegal or unethical practices without evidence can cause unnecessary tension. Gun stores operate under strict regulations. Ask directly and respectfully to maintain a positive environment if you have genuine concerns.
6. Using Technical Jargon Incorrectly
Throwing around firearm terms incorrectly can lead to misunderstandings. Clear communication is key. If you’re unsure about something, ask. It’s better to gain accurate information than to confuse the situation.
7. Making Unfounded Complaints About Gun Quality
Critiquing firearms based on hearsay or brand stereotypes doesn’t help anyone. Share your experiences if they’re based on fact, not rumor. Constructive feedback is appreciated, but unfounded complaints can undermine the store’s atmosphere.
8. Asking About Illegal Modifications
Asking store staff about illegal firearm modifications can make them uneasy and may lead to significant legal trouble. Keep the conversation within the bounds of the law and respect the responsibilities of firearm ownership.
9. Asking About Loading a Weapon with Live Ammo
Never ask if you can load a firearm with live ammunition inside a gun store. This request is a serious concern for safety. Learn how firearms work through safe demonstrations or safety courses instead.
10. Requesting Armor Piercing Ammo
Casually inquiring about military-grade armor-piercing rounds can raise eyebrows. These types of ammo are subject to strict regulations. Ask about the purpose and legality of the ammo you’re interested in to ensure you’re making a legal purchase.
11. Expressing Surprise About Background Checks
Acting shocked about background checks or suggesting someone else complete the paperwork or payment for you raises red flags. It’s standard procedure for ensuring responsible firearm sales. Trying to sidestep this process questions your eligibility and puts staff in a tough spot.
12. Discussing Illegal Drug Use
Mentioning illegal drug use while filling out firearm purchase paperwork is a definite no-go. This directly affects your eligibility to buy a gun. Keep the conversation clean and focused on the task at hand.
13. Inquiring About Suppressors for Illegal
Asking about getting a suppressor for illegal activities, like poaching, is a major misstep. Respect the legal uses of suppressors and approach conversations with ethical use in mind.
14. Mentioning Intent to Commit Crimes
Discussing any intent to use a firearm for crimes or settling disputes is out of bounds. Gun ownership comes with serious responsibilities. Keep conversations focused on legal, safe, and responsible use.
15. Attempting a Straw Purchase
Suggest you’re buying a firearm for someone who isn’t legally allowed to own one is illegal. If you’re not the end user of the gun, avoid any suggestions that could be interpreted as a straw purchase.
16. Joking About Serious Situations or Legal Obligations
Treat conversations about firearm ownership with respect. Joking about safety protocols or legal requirements sends the wrong message. A gun store is a place for learning and serious discussion.
17. Bragging About Skirting Laws
Talking about dodging gun laws isn’t clever; it’s risky and disrespectful. Respect the process and understand the weight of gun ownership to ensure everyone’s safety.
18. Negotiating Price as if It’s a Yard Sale
Treating a gun store like a garage sale and trying to haggle over prices undermines the store’s pricing structure. Respect the prices that reflect the quality, safety standards, and legality.
19. Wearing Inappropriate Attire or Disguises
Showing up in a gun store with attire that screams, “I’m up to no good,” can create unnecessary tension. Stores prioritize safety and security. Keep your look straightforward and respectful to maintain a positive environment.
20. Insisting on Handling Firearms After Being Denied
If the staff decides it’s not a good time for you to handle a firearm, respect their decision. Pushing the issue shows a lack of respect for the store’s policies and safety protocols.